❤❤❤ LOVE ❤❤❤
With Valentines day just around the corner, I thought this blog would be appropriate. Love, there are all different types of it that you come across in a lifetime. You have your childhood crushes that you swear you love. You find out it's just infatuation. Then comes the real stuff. First loves, let me get into this for a moment, for some people their first love is one that lasts forever. But for most that isn't the case. It's the first time you experience so many things, the feeling of love, the newness of it all, the butterflies, and ultimately the feeling of heartbreak. That first heartbreak is terrible. It feels like the end of the world, like your heart got ripped into a million pieces and nothing is going to be okay again. But it will be. After some tears shed, some phone calls to your bestfriend, and of course chocolate things start to feel okay. You start to move on, but you don't forget. You won't forget what your first love taught you. You'll remember that time in your life, the feelings you felt good and bad. It teaches you what you want and don't want the next time around. You're a different person after your first love, you are more cautious usually. You learn what you deserve. If they treated you terribly after awhile, you learn you don't deserve that, no one does ever. If your relationship was fine but there was something missing, you learn what you should feel like with love. Sometimes they just don't work out and that's okay.It's all a learning experience and that's the beauty of it.
One day you will find your real love, if you are lucky it's your first. But for most like I said it's trial and error. When you find that love that you feel is going to last forever, you just know . It's like a giant punch in the gut. Like " hey that's your person". You click instantly. At least that was the case for me and my experience. Every persons experience with it is different. I can tell you this though, it is not like the movies. Love portrayed in a movie is nothing like reality. Don't expect your partner to be waiting there with flowers all the time or saying these heart melting lines. The one thing it is like, it's falling in love with your bestfriend. And that? It's priceless.
It's what makes all the craziness of your real love worth it. It's knowing that they'll always be there for you in good times and bad. Being your biggest supporter in what you do. You will argue, I'm telling you that now. Especially when you end up moving in together. You're in a different environment, learning each others mannerisms, and the quirky things you never knew about. Some you'll love and others will drive you bonkers. Going through all of it is worth it in the end though. You have to learn to laugh through some of the stupid things that irk you. It's just not worth the fight. I've always heard the term "Pick your battles" and coming from someone that's gone through this that saying is so true. Through all the bad times you'll push through and come out stronger in the end. Because of the love you have for them, you will look past all the flaws and you'll accept them just as they are. They will do the same for you. It's the greatest feeling knowing that they'll be the one that's going to be with you at 80, in a rocking chair right beside you. It's the feeling of forever and knowing that's true, always. Love it is messy but it's so strong. There is nothing like a real love. It's for a lifetime. Don't waste it. Now, somewhere out there is your real love and it may take time and trial and error. But when you find it, treasure it, the moments, the feelings, everything. Don't have doubt, you will find it. Believe in that.
I hope you enjoyed reading this, it's all over the place. It was a difficult one to right, trying to find the right words to explain it. I hope you have a Happy Valentines day and end up finding that true love somewhere down the line ❤
Danielle
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